Is a Flirty Ex Causing You Grief
It can be very awkward when you are in a new relationship, but still find yourself having to deal with a flirty ex, who seems to think their behavior is totally appropriate. Worse, you could find that this flirtatious ex is causing stress on your relationship, making your current partner feel put out and angry that you wont address the situation.
The situation becomes more complicated if you have ties to your ex, such as children as you simple can’t cut all contact. This can leave you feeling completely stuck in the middle.
Firstly, is it possible that you are sending out positive signals to your ex? When you have been in a relationship for a long time, for it to come to an end, it can be hard to change the dynamic. Keep things formal when you do have contact – this does not mean you have to be cold, it simple means that you avoid extended contact, reminiscing about old times or playful touching.
Secondly, you must make it clear to your flirty ex that their is no chance of reconciliation and stress that their suggestive comments and behavior are in no way appreciated. Only communicate with your ex when it comes to do with the children and don’t respond to any other comments they make. If your current partner sees that you are sticking to boundaries they will re-assured.
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