Be a Smooth Operator
Many guys out there will believe they know how to flirt, thinking a cheeky wink or inappropriate pinch of the bum is all that’s needed to have a girl jumping into their arms. Well they would be wrong according to dating expert, Carlos Xuma, who in February 2013 released his report on flirting tips for guys.
Carlos claims that men lose sight of the goal, believing that flirting with girls is the end result: “…a guy should measure his success at flirting with how many women he dates who want to date him again.” Simple chatting with a woman is not flirting as there is no indication of attraction, an that is all flirting is, a way to build attraction.
More is More
Xuma claims that the flirtation is only effective if a girl wants to see more of the guy: “The trick for guys to remember is that flirtation needs to be ongoing and increase in intensity throughout the encounter or the series of meetings.”
When learning to flirt boys, it is all about experimentation, finding out what your charm can let you get away with and what will get you a slap in the face. Trial and error!
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