If You Want To Get Those Digits, Steer Clear Of These Flirting Mistakes
Flirting can be a tricky business – under the high pressure situation of approaching someone new it is easy to make some catastrophic errors that might see you at the wrong end of a restraining order. It is not always clear what the flirting mistakes are, especially when you don’t yet know your audience. So here are a few general things that you should always avoid, the rest is up to you…
- Maybe Have A Soft Drink – The majority of social flirting takes place at a bar, club or party i.e. somewhere where there is a never ending supply of alcohol within reach. Remember not to go overboard on the drinks, even if you can get a treble for 3 bucks. No girl or guy will be impressed with someone slurring and stumbling around them asking them to ‘feel their abs’. Maybe have a lemonade.
- Don’t Tease Too Much – There is a difference between playful teasing and overly sexual teasing, which can easily give the wrong impression. Keep your teasing light and subtle – a gentle touch of the elbow, not a grab of the private parts.
- Ease Up On The Aloof – There is something to be said for playing a little bit hard to get, it makes the chase a little bit more exciting. But if you overdo it you will probably end up coming across as arrogant and snobbish. Throw them a smile every now and then, it will work wonders.
So there you have it, three flirting mistakes you should always avoid. That isn’t too many to remember is it?
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