As a single woman, its nice to attract the attention of guys, so that you can see what and who appeals to you most. If, as a woman, you are looking for a charming, confident, macho fellow, what do you think the guys are looking for in you?
Tips on how to get your guy in a flirty mood:
- Ask yourself – If I was a guy, would I flirt with me?
Stand in front of a mirror and check your posture – do you look confident and approachable? Learn to love being yourself, and don’t do something crazy just to get attention! Before you get intimate, make sure you know how far you want to go with a guy you might hook up with. You don’t want to lead someone on when you’re not prepared for consequences, because you could end up in real trouble.
- Dress to Flirt
A super-flirty wardrobe staple is the mini skirt. They never really go out of style, and there’s one for every occasion. Pleated skirts are great for dancing in, while a leather skirt sends out the message that you have bit of wild in you. Even simple off-the-shoulder dresses are seductive, classy and flirty all at once. Kit out your flirt-ready clothes with the right accessories and shoes.
- Wear underwear that makes you feel sexy
Whether you feel your flirty best in lace, strings, maximisers, shocking pink polka dots, leather or corsets – make sure you wear your sauciest mood on the inside, so the outside radiates that too.
- Get the right make-up
Make-up can enhance your natural beauty; but overdone make-up takes you from sex bomb to hussy. The trick is choosing the right shades for your colouring and learning to apply them to suit your face. Most guys hate it when girls wear too much make up.
- Let him know you like him
If you happen to meet an interesting guy, compliment him on things you really do like, and when he is around his friends, flirt only with him, but chat with the other guys. Play a little hard to get but not too much
- Let him know you feel okay about touching
Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you’re talking. Don’t make it a big deal; make it look innocent and casual.
- Give yourself a boost
If you feel a little tense or stiff when you’re meeting new guys, prepare a little – join a pole dancing class or rehearse a funny story, whatever works for you.
- Places to meet men
Besides clubs and bars, you can meet and chat up men in gyms, at the Apple store, at sports clubs or even at the dog park.
Have a positive attitude and you will soon find the perfect partner for love, friendship or dating!