What Flirting Signals Is She Sending You, If Any?
Women are a mysterious breed and it has to said, it can be so difficult to know what they mean, and I’m saying that as a woman. Any man will be familiar with the situation where he asks his other half if she is okay, to be told “I’m fine”. Of course the guy knows that everything is so not fine, but he has no clue what he did wrong. Somewhere along the way the guy has missed some pretty important signals that his special lady is seriously peeved.
Just as it is easy to miss the signals that a woman is p**sed, it is also easy to miss the flirting signals, a woman gives when she is interested in someone. So how can you know if a woman is flirting with you, as no guy wants a drink thrown in their face or a punch to the crotch. Here are some of the main flirting signals women send out, decoded…
- She Laughs At Your Jokes – You know that you’re not that funny, but whenever you say something even mildy amusing, she throws her head back and laughs like you have said the funniest thing she has ever heard. Well the news is good buddy, she is into you…the truth is she probably isn’t even listening to you, she is just doing her best to boost your ego.
- Walk On – For some reason she keeps walking by you, back and forth, back and forth. Either she has a tiny bladder and has to take many trips to the bathroom, or she is trying to get your attention. On one of her next trips past you (because there is bound to be another one), stop her and ask her if she would like to join you for a drink, or a coffee.
- Touchy Feely – Is she going out of her way to touch you? Picking imaginary lint from your lapels or ‘accidentally’ brushing her arm against yours? Touching is a way of building intimacy, so she is probably interested in you if her hands keep wandering onto you in some way. Try touching her back, but is a subtle way, don’t go for the a grab of the ass.
- Personal Space Invader – If she gets right up close to you and into your personal space, she either has no awareness of social boundaries, or she is flirting. Be aware that if she keeps taking a step back when you step forward, she is trying to create distance between the two are you, meaning that she probably isn’t interested and you should move on.
But, flirty fellows beware, any of this signals could be red herrings – the woman of interest might just be a really friendly person; or she could be a huge attention-seeking flirting machine, who will flirt with anyone without any intention of allowing it to go any further.
So, come to think of it, these tips may not help you at all…sorry guys, it seems the best strategy may be to go for it hope for the best.
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