You Could Be A Seriously Bad Flirt And Not Even Know It
We all like to think we have a pretty good flirting styles, that our moves are super slick and sure to have your targets weak at the knees. But, for some reason you aren’t getting the response you hoped for, in fact quite the opposite – what is wrong with these people? Have you considered that it is you that is the problem, that you are in fact a bad flirt and your flirting moves are bordering on the diabolical. If you use any of these flirting moves, it may be time to re-think your strategy…
- Downer – You try to make the object of your desire feel bad about themselves by putting them down, in the hope that they will sleep with you to make themselves feel attractive again. It is a cheap and dirty trick, and even though it may get you one night, but they will soon realise what a douche you are.
- Other Suitors – Don’t go telling the person you are tying to flirt with about how many other suitors (real or imaginary) you have chasing you. There is nothing more off putting than someone who relishes having people chase them, plus it looks really arrogant. No one likes arrogance.
- Shifty Eyes – Yes I know making eye contact can be an uncomfortable experience for some people, but if you refuse to meet someones gaze it looks like you have something to hide – a skeleton in the closet (perhaps literally).